It is difficult not to allow even a little bit of annoyance into your tone when being or after being insulted, sometimes its not even a conscious thing (and of course some times it is :)....).Praeothmin wrote:I understand your point of view as well, but as I said, I'm still learning about moderating.
I've started to be more precise in my warnings, but I will start to keep them in document on my PC so that when a ban occurs, I will post it with the warnings that led to that ban.
The reason I still don't want to make the warnings public is because of the baiting I had noticed in Kor and Serafina's "debate", and also because KS easily resorts to insults when he feels someone was aggressive with him, and some posts from Mr. O. and W.I.L.G.A. did seem a bit like bait, even if they weren't intended as such.
I will continue to issue "public" warnings for rude behavior or possible flamebaits, and will keep the tallied warnings private for the moment...
Do you tell the person being warned what their tally is privately?.
And if so can you pm me what i am on?.